WHY?

I knew you were going,

I could see the signs, was it something that I said?

We were so good together, I looked after you,

We looked good together, where did we go wrong?

I treated you well; you were always well cared for,
You never wanted for anything,

You always smelled good, you were the best, I always saw to that,

Obviously, it was not enough because you still left me, 
Never to return, no coming back, no false starts, just gone,

When you did go, the (w)hole you left just got bigger and bigger,

Was that your parting gift to me? Was that the final shot, 

The one that really cut me to the bone?

I covered it up for as long as I could, I tried to hide the pain, 
What was the point, everyone could see it, except me,
Nobody told me, but they knew, oh yes, they knew,

You knew all along that you were going,
Of course you did,
Did you hate me that much?
We had been through so much together!

Alas, things change, I changed, I had to,
So I just I learned to live without you, 

Things were just that much shorter; I knew it would be, 
No point in hanging on to the past,

How I miss you though, we were so good together,

Do people still point and stare, or is it just in my head,

Of course it is, why I should be any different, God only knows,

So, gradually I have accepted your loss; life for me goes on,

But It still hurts every time I look in the mirror,

That bald guy staring back at me,

A victim to vanity, he misses a lot of things,

But you are so missed; you are up there, top three without doubt,

Mother Nature.... Hell Hath No Fury....you bitch!

(The breeze running over your scalp....not quite the same really!!)

16....I'm on my way!

Part.3   I've got a Triumph....OK!

      After a year almost to the day, it was time to move on, the time was right for me to go....before I was sacked!  The chief clerk at the transport company had been there for years, I did not like him and he certainly did not like me, bit ironic really because he got on so well with my dad! He was always fine with me, when my old man was about, but as soon as I was on my own, he was a nasty piece of work. He insisted I always referred to him as sir, never his Christian name, this was always strange to me because I was one of the few in the company that was expected to, and I had to report to him each morning even though his office was miles away from mine! On one occasion I remember, I phoned him from my office to report in but he said or rather he demanded that I report to his office immediately! When I arrived at his door, he beckoned me in and proceeded to berate me like I was a pupil and he was the Headmaster and of course me being me, turned and said,
    "is that it, have you finished because I have got a ton of work to do"' this angered him even more and he started yelling at me even more, that is until the depot Manager walked towards the office,
      "Morning all, everything ok,?" With that I was quickly ushered out of the clerk’s office in order for him to creep and crawl up to the manager, "yes chief, all under control," under control he said, that was the thing you see, I was not under his control, and he hated that, unlike the other office junior, a snot nose little shit who worked in the main office and was considered a bit of a protégé  by the Clerk and seemed to get away with murder because he always did as he was told, unlike myself who even at that young age, was not impressed by many people, it was not that I went out of my way to be awkward, I just hated bullies at school and why should I think differently about them now that I was at work, and this guy was a bully! This was something that I would remind him of in a couple of weeks’ time when I handed in my resignation! If it was a case of me being a slacker then fine, I would have deserved it, if my work was poor or my time keeping was bad then ok, I can't argue with that but all was fine in those departments, it was just the old personality thing, we just clashed! Things came to a bit of a head on one occasion when I went to see if I could help a customer who had come in one day. This guy came in to ask for some prices on how much it would cost to send of all things, a mast from his sail boat, it was to go to The Isle Of Man and this man also just happened to be, Irish! This man was such a nice guy and he was the real deal, all he needed was to have a green suit on,  a pint of Guinness in his hand and be holding a shamrock in the other! I think without putting too fine a point on it, he was my first encounter with a 'real' Irishman other than those in film and TV, I was fascinated by his voice, this was, if such a thing existed, poetry in motion.  During our meeting he went on further to say that the 'Irish fellow' knows all about this and perhaps he should speak to him to save any confusion! Now this confused me,

"I'm sorry, there are no Irish people who work here", I said to him and he then looked back at me quizzically ,"of course there is, I saw him last week and I spoke to him this morning," laughing he then went on and whispered in my ear, "listen here young fellow me lad, I'm not as daft as you think I am, that man is right now sat there in that office," he said pointing over my shoulder to the main transport office! I looked around and through the windows of the office, trying to figure out who he meant and the only person in the office was the Chief Clerk, the horrible git that tried to rule by sheer physical presence! 

"You mean...him?" "I do indeed, that's the very gentleman, I'd like to see him if you please," I walked over and was just about go in, when he looked up to me glaring, for a second I had nearly forgotten that I had to knock, heaven forbid!  So I knocked and he was looking down at some paperwork and without even looking up at me, he called out, "enter", a response that I just could not take seriously, especially coming out of the mouth of a jumped up little shit like him,  "there is a customer to see you, you spoke on the phone this morning," he craned his neck to look over my shoulder then quickly stood up and brushed past, "that will be all, you can get back to your office now", and as I walked up the loading area, I heard the clerk talking in a perfect Irish accent to the customer!  It was so fluent, so accurate that I just had to stop and look around and then much to his annoyance, he turned his back on me and ushered the customer into his office, he knew alright, he knew that he had been rumbled by me of all people!  My dear old friend Vic could see that I was at first dumbstruck and then he could see what I was thinking next and quickly moved in to tell me all about what had just happened. Laughing his head off and coughing his lungs up, he removed his cigarette and proceeded to tell me a story, "his Great Grandfather was Irish and so whenever he can, he likes to give the impression he is too, he has done it for years, and we all have a right old laugh about it", the closest to Ireland he has ever got is watching the Val Doonican Show on T.V every Saturday night! I turned to him and was just about to speak when Vic put his hand up to my mouth to close it, "don't worry about it or worry about him, it's just what he does, he thinks  it makes his boring life seem more interesting to others! As a young Buck, I just could not get my head around that, I could not understand what possessed a grown man to spread the bullshit and not realize that he was not fooling many people, what a sad man he must have been!
      After a year, I was nearly 17 and it was, I felt, time to start moving on, it had been a great year on so many levels most importantly and noticeably, I had grown up. From my first day, I had hit the ground running with very little time to dwell on my past, just to wave it goodbye.
      When it came to handing my notice in, I remember having very mixed emotions. Seeing the governor and thanking him for giving me a chance, to prove that I could work in the big world, saying goodbye to Vic and all of the drivers was hard, they had been so good to me, most of them had looked after me but they had also let me live by my own mistakes too, looking back I am truly grateful for that, I may have been Dave's boy but I made my own way, on my own merit. My last day was very bittersweet, sad in one way but exciting in another, the new job was more money, working with people more like my own age, a million miles away from what I had been doing and it was one of those ‘Déjà vu’ moments, I finished on the Friday, had the weekend to enjoy before starting on the Monday, almost as I had done a year earlier, except back then I left school, this time I was leaving one job and going straight into another!
      My new job was as an office junior, again fortunately for me it was not far from where I lived, so for the first few weeks my trusty old pushbike was still required. This job was to most young lads of my age almost like 'living the dream', it was one of the biggest Motorcycle dealers in the South West of England, chrome, speed, lots of noise, however, not for yours truly, initially they all meant Jack Shit to me, the main reason I had gone for the job in the first place was pure and simple, more money. I liked bikes but I didn't love them, even back then I liked four wheels as opposed to two, much more.
        Day one in a new job is a bit strange, unlike your very 'first' job out of school where you are given a bit more slack, a bit of time for 'bedding' in, a certain amount of generosity is afforded to you for the cock-ups you will undoubtedly make, your second job is a lot different, you are expected to know everything there and then and for that reason you are probably viewed with a bit more suspicion, it is more like "whose this new guy, is he here to take my job"?
    Now I am the sort of person who has always been 'an open book', what you see is what you get, so it usually doesn't take too long to blend in and 'establish' myself and after a day or two, all of those boundaries that supposedly surrounded me, were gone.
      To start with, the initial view is that you obviously like motorcycles and probably own one, I fell into neither category and it took me a little while to understand why people should think that, you must remember I only applied for the job because it was more money, no other reason!
      By now I had owned my first car for quite a while, and a few weeks later, I passed my driving test at the second attempt, my first test was a dismal failure, too cocky by far, I still had to realise that you can do whatever the fuck you like, when you have passed, until then you do it by the book, but Like all young men of that age, I was full of snot and beans  and I knew more than the examiner did and when those devastating few words hit you, "I'm sorry but you have failed", I just thought it was a mistake, what did I do wrong, and then I was presented with a list of things that just went on and on, I just remember saying to the examiner, "ok, ok you have made your point”!  When I did pass eventually, my world was transformed almost overnight, the world was my oyster! Like all 'first' cars, it was a banger, legal but still a banger and I loved it, I would clean it regularly, polish the rust, fill every hole with plastic padding, cover up any dings, dents or scratches with an assortment of decals and stickers but most importantly, try to make a tank of petrol  last as long as possible! However, most of all, it was mine, I saved for it, I paid for it and I appreciated it more for that reason!  It was a 1966 Triumph Herald, battleship grey, with red upholstery and I loved it and because it was a Triumph, it served a different kind of purpose, for a while! Because I now worked for a motorcycle dealer, all of the customers I came into contact with just assumed that I must own a bike, so in those early days I would humour them by answering the inevitable question of "what you got mate", and I would always answer, " I've got a Triumph", which was the truth of course, then I would get the obvious response of, "what, a Bonneville or a Trident," no mate, a Herald!" The strange looks I would get back were priceless, “that must be one of those limited edition models that were only for export, I've heard of them"!  Naturally I would always go along with the joke, well it would be wrong not to! That car served me well that is for sure, I always made sure she looked nice but I would get regular bollockings from my old for not checking the oil or the water, "you would look a right little prick if the fucker would seize up on you, does not  matter a fig how shiny it is", this was his almost weekly tirade to me, of course he was right but back then, at that age, I just thought he was a grumpy old git who was always on my case, fortunately for me, my mum would moan at him for moaning at me, so I did have an ally of sorts. 

The famous Triumph!

(It was 1977 and I was coming to get ya!! 

                               Ok,Ok...you had to be there!)

   

      I soon got into the swing of things with my new job, a few balls ups, a bit of argy bargy in the first few weeks but even back then, I was one of those people who once you met, I was a good bloke to know. I would talk to anybody, I was still young enough to see things and most people at face value, and cynicism was still an emotion that I was yet to completely discover. The year before had been an education, I had learnt such a lot but this job however, was going to take things to another level, lots of highs, some lows but this was the start of the Martin that was to come, like him or loathe him, if I was to put the pin on the map, this is where it all began for me.

Part.4       to follow soon….

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'The Canyon Lament'  
(Perhaps, maybe, who knows….
...you had to be there!)

    Was it a big deal back in‘67, maybe, maybe not, 
It’s all a bit of a haze, one great big colourful....haze.

Just like that guy with the ‘Strat, you know the one, only his haze was Purple, mine was all the colours of the rainbow, so to answer the original question, they could have been, maybe they should have been, so they probably were big back then and....
.... they were probably pretty cool, you had to be there…. MAN!

    We passed it all around, our joints, our pills, our highs and our lows, we knew everyone, perhaps only a brief encounter but we all knew each other, or did it just feel that way,
Perhaps, maybe, who knows....you had to be there. 

The colours in the clouds, the stars in the sky, 
The spins, the climbs, the faster drops,
We shared it all, sometimes up, sometimes down, 
Together we raised our hands, 
Some flew without wings, Some flew on strange wings, 
Some crashed and burned because they got too close to the Sun 
Others found the beauty within, that elusive happiness,
The ability to like and to be liked,
To love and to be loved, 
Some  found what they were looking for, whatever that was, 
Some are still looking, who for, what for, even they are not sure....
Man, you had to be there!

     Our music we loved, because we got it, it said things to us, it meant something to us, it could make us freak-out, it made us love and be loved, whatever, however, it was so cool….
Man,you had to be there!

Through yellow and blue lenses, fringes on our jackets and loons in our pants, Smiley's on our chests and  bandana's on our heads, 
We were truckin' and we kept on truckin', 
With an old school bus or a beat up Econoline, 
If it was free and making a stand against the MAN, we were there, From the East to the West, this Land was our Land  
We drove our vans or we bummed a ride to make our stand! 

 They gave us their chords,  their twelve string symphonies 
Those that would jangle and there were tambourines for us all, 
They shared their words with us, over and over, again and again, 
It was uplifting, it was joyous, it rocked and it rolled, 
It soared and it swooped all in perfect harmony, 
We all hung on to that 'Express when it came, 
We were A Long Time Gone, to where, I don't know….
Christ Man,you had to be there!

 we whirled and we span, we reached up to the sky and we touched the clouds, for what, who knew, who cared, we just did, it was a trip, our trip and we shared our ride,

Sometimes we came down with a bang, in tie-dye and puke, the sweats and the shivers, the hours that became days, 
Only to became long dark days.... but we got through, 
We swayed to the other side, well, most of us, 
Some turned off along the way,  they found their own Utopia,
Some kept on going and some...are still going,

But it was so good because we were free, we did not care, we had each other …MAN!

Did it mean something, ‘aint that the truth, 
It was something else….MAN!

Some were hit with a pulse, they collected the drone, 
That continuous drone from your head to your toes; 
They were the ‘Dead Heads', who moved in harmony for hours on end,  at one with their inner being, 
Shake rattle and……far out….you had to be there!

What did it mean, who the fuck knew, it meant something better we hoped, we just passed around the flowers and pulled on our joints, 

And the world that perhaps only we could see, 
We shared with our friends, the food that we ate,  
The wine that we drank, 
We shared with our friends, 
The men and women we loved, 
We shared with our friends , 
What was mine, was yours and what was yours was mine….
You had to be there!

To love was so cool, it was open and honest,

Today she was mine, tomorrow she would be his 
...And she would be his on Friday too, 
Because Friday was always on his mind, 
We shared the love, we shared with our friends, 
We had plenty of love, enough for everybody…..
Jesus, you should have been there!

Even the rashes and the sores, we shared with our friends, 
It may have turned sour but to us it was still love ….
Christ you should have been there!

Then, the MAN appeared, the MAN who had been watching,
He could see there was money to be made,

We saw the colours; We saw Nirvana,
He saw the dollar sign, he saw the cash cow grazing in our field,

We could see through him, any man is cool in a kaftan, 
At the weekends of course,

As long as he is back in his suit on Monday!
While we smoked to soften our edge,
The MAN snorted to sharpen his!

The dream became cynicism, a look out for number one,

…but for a while, life was good….MAN! 



(You've got to dream a little.....sometimes!)

All Change At 16!

(...a boy to a man)

    

        My life  had nearly reached that first of the landmark years, sixteen, and up to that point my life had been full of the usual 'angst', the almost non-stop round of 'firsts' one associates with growing pains of all kinds, all of those events that are only to be expected in the life of...everyone I suppose, because let's face it, nothing is new, nothing is unique and although it might seem at the time that you are facing these 'firsts' on your own, you are not, I still had to understand that the world didn't revolve around me!

     I suppose the 'single' most significant thing that we all go through has got to be and no I don't mean blowing the candles out on your 16th birthday cake, something far less glamorous but far more important and dare I say it, monumental! Of course it has to be losing my virginity,officially that is, not the bullshit I had spread around to save face among my friends, the real deal! Certainly, like most of my peers, I lost my cherry somewhere between 1974 and 1976, at least that is what I told my mates, of course I did, I was no fool, we 'all' lied about it and I think that we all knew we were lying, that went with the territory! Like any major event in your own history, you always remember where, when, why and who with, that is indelible like a birthmark or like a tattoo, it is something that stays with you forever. Let's get one thing straight, my first time had been coming for a long time (or should that be cumming?), certainly for a boy of the age that I was, this was going to be that moment in my life when I was to tumble (or even fumble!) through that portal, the one that was to lead the way from being an insignificant boy to being a man, a man who from that moment, was on a mission! 
            Looking back now, the first time of fumbling and grunting in the dark to the hushed tones brought on by one of the quieter tracks on E.L.O's album 'A New World Record' (you see, certain albums and pieces of music are forever in your memory, are so evocative and that title, how ironic!) playing on my stereo, my technique if I had any back then, was pretty shit, borderline non-existent and if I remember rightly it was all over in less than a nano second!  I remember thinking so vividly at the time,

   
     "Is that it,  is that what I have waited so long for? better keep practicing then."

    Of course your average kid of fifteen and a bit is stepping into unknown territory, that it certainly was, and it was no different for me, I did not know what to expect, I was given no 'manual' to revise as such, apart from the dirty books that I had read from cover to cover leading up to that point in my life, but somehow, the 'real' thing was so different to what I had expected!  Of course with time, a lot of pleading, practice in my case did not make me perfect, not by any means but things improved, well they did for me , like all good malt whisky's, with age of course!  
        Like all boys, it takes a long time to understand that it is a two way thing, it's not just about YOU, or rather ME in this case and I was certainly no different, I was selfish of course I was, what did I know, that monkey was mine and by Christ I was going to spank it, as long as I had blown the wax out of my ears, I was more than happy! It was just a case of,
     
   "that was fun, what do you want to do now, we could play some of my records, up to you, it's your choice but just remember,  I'm meeting the lads later on!" 
       
        Sensitivity was an emotion that was still eluding me, feelings toward how the girl felt were still some way off but when I finally made it to sixteen, I had already made one of my 'first' major decisions that would shape my future, I had decided to leave school!  I had got a taste already of earning a decent 'part time' wage but I wanted more!  I remember the day I left school, reporting to the Headmistress's office and together discussing if it was the right thing for me to do, how she then tried to talk me into staying, how I was a bright boy and so on, I will always remember her saying that I was a very popular boy and did I know that, my teachers liked me and my peers liked me and was I sure I wanted to leave, I did not have to, I just had to say the word and the release papers would be torn up.  However, my mind was made up, I wanted to go and that was it, I remember her shaking my hand and for the first time ever in all the years I was at that school, where she struck fear in all who happened to be caught running in the corridors and were unfortunate to end up in her 'cross-hair', she called me Martin and not by my surname, Lawrence, to this very day it has got to be one of 'those' moments one that I will always remember, a moment in my life that I suppose was very poignant, although at the time the significance was lost on me, I just knew that the 'shackles' of being a school kid were about to be left behind in her office for good and I was going to be running as fast as I possibly could to get out of the school gates, not understanding the implications that this boy, ME,  was about to enter something entirely different, the real world!

         I left school on the Friday and started work the following Monday, back then it was that easy to walk straight into a job, not a career but certainly a job.  In one way, I was so relieved, the pressure had gone overnight, not that there was any 'real' pressure anyway, the gate to the school had now closed, and the security, the way of life, my friends, the laughs, the trials and tribulations of being a schoolkid, were gone, I was now on my own, scary, sad in some ways but so exciting!
        My first 'full time' job was with a transport company and I was a little lucky that my old man worked for the same company, not in Swindon but near enough for my new workmates  to know that he was my dad!  A hindrance, maybe, a bit of luck, of course but I had to succeed on my own merits, I dare say he kept a watchful eye on me, just in case I was going to bring any kind of embarrassment upon his name, but that is about all, I was aware of this and did my utmost to distance myself from the, 
"you must be Dave's boy" syndrome. For the first few weeks, that was inevitable but it soon passed when I started to establish my own worth, my own identity so to speak! 
           Overnight, I went feet first straight into a new world, a world where I was the kid who was now working with men, men who were my dad's age. If I was going to fuck up, I was now on my own, I did not want to ask my dad for any help, I don't think he would have given me any, not because he couldn't be arsed, he would have wanted me to make it on my own. I had my own office, well, more of my own desk in a shared office, which was in the same Porta-Cabin as the branch manager, who just happened to be a really nice guy...at my interview that is, however things were now different, I was on trial, I was being scrutinized, and he was the one doing the watching!  One of the main things I learned dealing with all of the lorry drivers was basically to grow up and to do it quick, I had to realize their ways, I had to integrate with them, if I hadn't, I would have, sixteen or not, been viewed with suspicion and never become one of them, one of the lads! So I did my best to keep up with these men, these men who were mostly my dad's age, they virtually all knew him, and this did not matter because I was gradually being moulded into their ways! 
        Within a few weeks the most noticeable thing was my language, my swearing had gone on to another level, schoolboy swearing was one thing, I would swear and walk a little faster just in case I caused offence or was about to get thumped, bloody, shit, fuck and bastard were all you needed, but this, this was a dictionary of filth that was now at my disposal!  At school, most of the swearing was confined to the playground and you would pick those words up from the big kids, or on the way home but at work however, it was the norm to swear all day, all the time and at everyone, not anyone, EVERYONE! 
                 One of the best people I have ever worked with was the transport manager, Vic, he smoked like a chimney, when he coughed it was like a fall of soot, he would be one of those men who would insist on finishing his sentence regardless of his coughing, getting redder and redder in the face, and he would make the worst jokes seem so much funnier because he would insist on getting to the punchline whilst gagging for breath, which made all of those in his company laugh along with him and the office or wherever would become one big cough-a-thon, for in those days, everybody smoked, unlike today where the smokers are largely outnumbered by the non-smokers, back then, it was so different!            He had a saying that he always used, if he wanted one of the drivers to do a job for him, he would always call out,
       "George, I've got something for you", wait a few seconds and then he would say,
        " too late, it's gone soft!"
For weeks and weeks, I did not have a clue what he was on about, I just did not get the joke that is  until finally I asked one of the other office clerks,
       "Why does Vic keep saying that", this guy at me in disbelief and needless to say, he started  giggling and shaking his head, and giving me one of those 'you're still a kid' looks,
       "well, what does it mean......oh, oh I get it!"
        In the year that I was there, Vic was the best, he would help me when he could and I was amazed to find out that although he could swear for England at work, when we clocked off,  Victor went home and Vic stayed at work, he never swore at home and never in front of his wife!  Many years later I heard that he had died of lung cancer and by all accounts, he was smoking right up until the end, was he an advert for living life to the full, or was he an advert for 'not' smoking, bit of each I suppose, but I am so glad I knew him. 
      During those years I developed a 'phone' voice and even though I say it myself, became very adept at using the phone. However, there were considerable drawbacks, as I soon found out!  Speaking to various customers on the phone was part of my job and you soon built up a rapport with most of them, however, one proved to be a crushing blow to my developing ego!  I used to speak to a lady from one of our customers quite often, Tina, if parcels had gone astray or parcels needed to be collected, I was the one that had to deal with the calls. I knew she was older but when a 'woman' flirts with you at that age, or rather you think she flirts, you certainly feel like you are living the dream, that is until my own fantasy bubble was about to burst! There was an ongoing problem with parcels from this company being continually returned, it appeared to be a labeling error on the part of the company, the company who this 'voice' worked for, so she was to make a visit to the transport company and try to resolve the problem.  Well this to me, at sixteen, was a bit of a dream come true, I was going to be the person who, with her help, was going to try and sort this problem out, I was going to at last be able to put a face to the name!  The day arrived and I was summoned over to the transport office because this lady had arrived!  Jesus-Fucking-H-Christ, I ran over there as fast as my testosterone fueled body would allow, burst into the office only to be met by a woman who was the same age as.... my Grandmother!  It would have been traumatic enough if she was the same age as my Mum, you have to remember, at that age, I still had to master the art of diplomacy and my disappointment must have been so obvious, especially when my colleagues were making rude gestures behind her back and trying not to laugh, talk about feeling deflated! She may have been a lovely person...to her grandchildren, and the lesson I learnt that day was always to think the worst about someone's looks, on the phone that is, because it would be a nice surprise when you meet face to face and that person is drop dead gorgeous! Of course I soon realized how that too was a two way thing, I may have thought I was sex on legs at the time but obviously I must have been  have been quite the opposite viewed through someone else's eyes, probably true really, I don't seem to remember beating the ladies off with a stick, maybe only in my dreams of course. 
      During that year I became acquainted with yet more firsts in my life, how people, men, could be nasty bastards to each other, something I thought I had left behind when I left school!  When I was at school, to see two boys square up to each other didn't raise so much as a second glance, it's what happened, it's what we did, never a day went by without some altercation.  However, when you see men going at it, that is a different ball game, as I was soon to discover.  Bob, or 'Boggy' as he was known and Pete who was known as 'Moon Man' (for reasons I shall come to later!), they had a massive set-to over hemorrhoids of all things!  What was meant as a 'playful' kick up the arse from Boggy for Moon Man to hurry up out of his way so he could clock out at the end of one particular shift, had Moon Man screaming in agony!  Like a lot of truck drivers, a lot suffer with piles and Moon Man was no exception, he went berserk and a chase ensued and he finally caught up with Boggy and head butted him leaving him with a bloody nose! When you are witness to men as old as your dad knocking seven bells out of each other, as a sixteen year old, it's sort of exciting in a primeval way, it's also a bit scary!  Needless to say they had to be separated and sadly, never spoke to each other again. That in itself was something that was strange, that grown men would revert back to something akin to being in the playground, you were used to that at school all of the time but when grown men do it and mean it, that is a bit hard to understand!
              My transition period was very brief, the novelty of being the new boy, being a sixteen year old and of course being 'Dave's boy' soon wore off and I soon became just one of the 'men' and was treated accordingly. During the year I was there, one of the most powerful feelings known to man showed up, the effect that money can have on some people, how money can change people overnight!  One of the drivers, who just happened to be one of the most miserable fuckers ever to walk the earth, won the Football Pools!  The sum of £12000 back in 1977 was quite substantial, not enough to give up work but enough to make life a lot nicer for the recipient.  This guy however, all of the money on God's earth would have still not been enough to change him into a nice person, he was born to be a horrible man, he was always first out in the mornings and first back in the afternoon, with barely a grunt to anyone, he would never make a cup of tea for anyone else, would never let anyone read his paper and the thing I hated about him was of all things, belching!  He would for some reason produce the most disgusting burps known to man, did not care who was in earshot or how close they were to him and when it was mentioned to him, the more he did it.  Anyway, he was thought of as that dirty bastard, who seemed to go out of his way not to be liked but the word soon got round that he had won this money and almost overnight, he had, out of nowhere acquired quite a 'fanbase'. That is until he made a 'token' gesture, of one can of beer and a cigar for all of his work 'mates'! I remember thinking at the time, I suppose he has got a heart in there somewhere, however, I can still see people telling him to his face to shove them up his arse! I can still remember him knocking off on that day, walking to his car with almost the same amount of cans and cigars as he had come into work with!  I can still vividly hear the abuse that was hurled at this man, this was something I thought I had seen the back of when I had left school, this behaviour was the norm...at school, this was expected...at school, but this was the workplace and this was ...men, and at first, this was really hard to come to terms with!  So I suppose that was not only me realizing that our bodies change, from going from children to 'adults' but fundamentally we never leave our childhoods 'completely' behind because unknown to me at the time, I was also witnessing my first case of 'mob rule', my  first exposure to any form of adult hypocrisy in the workplace. I can still remember thinking to myself what did they expect, a share of his winnings, they made no secret beforehand of their dislike for this man, he has made a gesture to you, he did not have to for fuck's sake! Back then I was so naive, I always saw things at face value and the 'cynical' side of my nature was still, a long way off into the future. Needless to say, he left soon after that, he just never clocked in one morning and last anyone ever heard of him was that he was working as a caretaker at one of the local schools, bit ironic really because he was certainly the sort of man who did not like being around kids, or adults for that matter!
    Ernie was one of those men you could never imagine being a young man, the sort of man who went straight from childhood to being a geriatric, come to think of it, back then, anyone over forty was to me, an old fart! Ernie was the cleaner, he swept up, emptied the bins, chucked some bleach down the toilets now and again and most important of all, he made the tea!  He was a man who could make you laugh without realizing and with very little effort. On one occasion, a very attractive lady came into the depot asking for directions, a woman in her forties immaculately dressed and spoken!  She wanted to get to the very newly built College which was miles from where we were, she asked one of the clerks in the office, he had an idea but he also knew that Ernie lived over that side of town, so he asked this lady to follow him because he felt sure that Ernie would be able to give her directions. Off they duly went in search of Ernie, sure enough there he was walking up the loading platform with the morning tray of tea for the clerks in the office. 
   "Ernie, got a minute, need your help", acknowledging the call from the clerk, he walked up to the pair,
   " Any idea how to get to the new College" he was asked,  he paused to mull the question over in his head, turned and smiled at the lady, looked away and squinted his eyes further to give the question more thought until finally, looking up at the pair of them,
    " the College you say, the new one not the old one", thinking they were going to get the directions they needed, the pair of them almost 'willing ' the names of the streets to come out of Ernie's mouth were suddenly mortified by his eventual answer,
     " do you know what...I'm fucked if I know", and with that he carried on walking with the tray to the office without a second thought, leaving a highly embarrassed clerk, me in the corner crumpling up with laughter and a very shocked woman who turned and stormed out!  Even if the matter of his choice of language had been brought to Ernie's attention, he was the sort of man who would not understand what all the fuss was about, oh the power created by that of a well chosen swear word, still brings tears to my eyes even now!
        Every angry dog gets one chance at being a nasty bastard but then a full moon changes everything. As I said earlier, the guy who was renamed 'Moon Man', earned his stripes and indeed his new  name which was very apt choice!  One minute a perfectly normal guy the next grade 'A' psycho, no in between, no middle ground, just one or the other, I was pretty fortunate, he was always a funny and obliging man to me, full of anecdotes that would have me in stitches.  I may have been a man child and in his world, no threat at all but then again his problem on this occasion was with the 'canine' community not mankind, to such an extent, that it nearly cost him his job!  One of his regular deliveries was to a house where the owner used to run a small business that made book-matches, this was well before the invention of the internet, and so all things 'printed' were done in the old fashioned way, very labour intensive, very hands-on, little works of art, you had to have a certain degree of skill, you honed your skill, your craft from your workshop or your garage, with your dog! This man, although he himself was a very likeable man, his dog was the opposite, one of life's meanest son's of bitches but the problem was, this dog could do no wrong in his eyes but all was about to kick off.  There was a delivery to this address almost every other day, an afternoon delivery was never a problem but in the mornings was a different story, the dog was always out in the garden and it would appear it was lying in wait, ready to charge up the path and chase the hapless lorry driver out of the garden. At first there would be phone calls of complaint that parcels had been left out in the rain, not signed for and on occasion damaged by rain!  Moon Man was summoned to see the branch manager and his explanation would always be the same, that 'fucking mad dog' as he would put it, would never let him past the gate without a chase and the damage was caused by Moon Man throwing the parcel and running as fast as he could out of the gate, slamming it shut just in time before the hound could sink it's teeth into his arse!  He was warned that he must always wait for an answer at the door and never was he to throw a package over the gate, but old Moon Man had other ideas, no way was a mutt going to call the shots!  The next few deliveries went off without any incident, obviously the timing was right, the dog was otherwise occupied, however, the tide was about to turn!  On this particular day he walked through the gate and made the delivery without any hitch, that is until he turned around to head towards the gate where the dog, was sat waiting for him, then it made it's move, it began to run full pelt towards Moon Man who as quickly as he could, going backwards towards an out building and apparently once through, slammed the door shut just in time. It turns out that it had trapped him in the building and for the next half an hour, he was at the mercy of a demon dog, you have to remember that this was decades before the mobile phone was as much of a fixture to the human being as underwear, he was unable to phone to raise the alarm, he was just stuck there. In the end, after waiting long enough, Moon Man decided to make a run for it and take on the dog, with a cricket bat!!  It turns out that he looked around the building found an old cricket bat, of which he maintained it was purely to be used as a 'defensive' weapon if necessary and then with this maniacal scream, he burst out of the building, the dog was padding around the garden and saw Moon Man making a break for freedom, gave chase barking and snarling and just as Moon Man got out of the gate, slamming  it shut but only to catch his pocket on the catch, ripping it apart and spilling all his loose change in the process! All of this commotion had been witnessed by the man who owned the house and he was about to see how a normally mild mannered man went into a complete 'melt-down'!  Moon Man went crazy, barging back through the gate he pushed the owner to the floor and proceeded to chase the dog around the garden, with the cricket bat swinging wildly above his head! To say the dog was petrified would be putting it mildly and after dodging the bat for a few minutes, it ran and hid in the shed, the same one that it had been holding Moon Man captive, Moon Man saw his chance, slammed the door shut, turned and as calm as you like, turned and walked towards the gate but not before he picked up a plant pot and hurled it through window of the shed, leaving glass and wood splinters flying everywhere, not to mention a terrified dog howling with fright. Allegedly he muttered a few expletives to the cowering man on the floor, he even raised the bat to him, then he calmly picked up all of the spilt change from his pocket, got in his lorry and drove off.      When he returned to the depot the phone call had been received and he was summoned to the manager's office to explain himself, a blazing row ensued and he stormed out of the office with the manager telling him that he was to be put on two weeks suspension and never do anything like this again. What was said to him next made a lasting impression on yours truly,  the Branch Manager yelled after him saying  that he should not have to deal with lunatics like him and next time there is a full moon, he better stay in bed because he was, and I quote,
          'a fucking Moon Man'! 
     Others heard the commotion, realized who the Manager was talking to and the name stuck, from that day on he was forever known as Moon Man by everyone and not many people would be brave enough to wind him up ever again. He has very recently I have heard passed away and it may be nearly forty years later but I still will always think of him whenever there is a full moon, God bless you Moon Man.
               During that first year of working for a living, I had my first experience of 'industrial' action in the workplace that I inhabited!  Within a few weeks of me starting, I was introduced to the shop steward, I found him to be a bit of a hippy type but apparently he was not what you would call a 'thorn' in managements side, more like a pain in their arse, he was never quite viewed upon as someone to be taken seriously! He would always present himself as the saviour of the workers, always be looking out for their interests, you have to remember, this was the Seventies and industrial action was almost a day to day occurrence, a lot of which was very 'relevant' but a lot was, looking back almost forty years on, laughable! This guy almost called the whole workforce out on strike, in a vain hope that they would back him because he claimed to have got a 'splinter' in his arse from a toilet seat!  Apart from making himself a bit of an unwilling celebrity, indeed a bit of a laughing stock amongst his workmates, he was deadly serious and he insisted that management changed the wooden seats over to plastic seats or he would be ''balloting" the rank and file for possible industrial action. After weeks of serious discussion, he won and the seats were changed, at least he had something to tell his grandchildren I suppose, he managed to force about a major change in the workplace, that is undeniable. I think it is so ironic really, the toilet block in question had no lights, so in the wintertime, early morning was dark and early evening was the same, just think what a health and safety issue that would be today!  I suppose back then in the grey seventies, you didn't mind pissing on your boots, as long as you never got a splinter in the arse!
               That year spent at the transport company will always mean so much to me and for so many reasons and on so many levels!  It was my first full-time job, obviously the first thing, so much seemed to happen in those twelve months, I was out in the big wide world on my own, I had to make decisions for myself, people were dependant on me to give them answers, friendships began in one direction and friendships drifted apart in the other.  From being a kid at school one day to being a young man going to work the next, those first few weeks for me, went so fast, so much to take in, so much to learn, from the cosiness of school to the total exposure of the workplace, it was at first, very scary.   I definitely hit the ground running, there were many occasions that I cocked up, being told off by my teachers was entirely different from getting a bollocking from my manager, watery eyes and a quivering bottom lip did not work here, this was the big wide world and there were fewer places to hide. Not only did the time go fast on a day to day level but this 'new' Martin rapidly pulled away from the 'old' model, his cosy and safe way of life upto that point and above all else, this was the end of him as the person he was and the beginning of the person he would become.


Coming soon.....'78 onwards (I've got a Triumph you know!) 

16.... I’m on my way!
(a short story from the mind of 
'Sleep That Burns')

      From the moment that the spark ignites the flame that becomes you and me, from that moment on our lives are all about 'firsts', every second, every minute in every hour, everything is new to us, from the very insignificant to the monumental, this is where our journey begins our first journey, the one that is the making of us all!
      Our first chapters, those blurred parts of our early years, very few of us can remember the baby phase, we are told by others, our parents and our siblings, we are given graphic stories of how we were and what we did and all we can do is shrug our shoulders and raise an eyebrow, we were there and yet we were not, in body maybe but our developing minds were miles away, even then, we were starting to focus on the bigger picture!
    Eat, sleep, poop and pee, start to crawl then begin to sit up, trying to stand then fall back into a poop and pee filled nappy only to start all over. These are all firsts, these are all new, with so much going on, so much fresh information to process, is it any wonder that a baby yells, never mind about being hungry, never mind about needing to be changed, teething would be a minor distraction, I think we all suffered major headaches with all of the firsts that we were facing on a daily basis, our own learning curves had well and truly, begun.
    Eventually we soon became miniature people, and with all of the basics now part of our armoury within a few years, we would experience the first traumatic incident in our lives, the one all kids go through, leaving our mothers at the door of our first classroom and being led into our first day at school by our first teacher!
    My first day was as I recall, a fun day, new friends, new everything really, I remember sand, I remember water, biscuits wrapped in greaseproof paper, being read stories,  we seemed to live on the floor cross legged, peeing my pants because the concept of putting your hand up to go to the toilet was so new to me, should I, shouldn't I, when is a good time to ask, what about now...oh... too late,
    "MISS, I need to go to the toilet please"
      "Oh dear Martin, looks like you've already been!"

     All part of the deal I suppose and that feeling of being sat around in wet pants, soon made me shoot that hand in the air as soon as my bladder sent signals to my brain! It was during those formative days, structure came into play, lining up in an orderly fashion, girls were always first, break times meant milk and biscuits and dinner times were obviously, some sort of meat with mashed potato and something that was cabbage (I think!) and dessert had custard on it, yellow, brown or pink or the dreaded semolina, the stuff had the consistency of wallpaper paste and I hated it so much,  I don’t think I have touched the stuff since but in those ‘black and white days’ you ate it or you went hungry until you got home. It took me a long time to understand why you had to put your hand up to get attention or to ask a question, it seemed that I was always sat cross legged on the floor, perhaps back then it was easier for the teacher to 'corral' the class and appear to be more intimidating standing in the middle of us, looking down on the kids! Learning to keep quiet, a very hard thing for me to do then and still is I suppose; I never grew up to be a shy and retiring adult.
      During the first few weeks of school, bonds of friendship began to form and I came into contact with Dave! He was, even then, about a foot taller than me and I soon realised that having a 'big' mate was always going to be to my advantage. We were paired up together and we sat side by side in the classroom, a bit of an odd duo because he was so much bigger than me, we were both gifted with a mischievous sense of humour and we were a perfect match but… I could do something he couldn't, tie my shoe laces! It was perhaps one of the first acts of kindness that I showed, I taught him to do his laces up, and from that moment on a lifelong friendship started, and we still refer to that meeting to this day. The most important lesson that I learnt as every young boy knows, if you have a big friend, you are less likely to be picked on and that is very true I can tell you!
    Within a couple of years it was soon on to the juniors, the 'big school', it was just across the field but it was a huge jump, I had heard all about it and now…it was my turn!
This would be the dawn of so many firsts. The first time 'proper' learning started, no more playing in the sand pit, no more measuring out water, no more sitting still with your head resting in your folded arms after dinner and definitely no climbing through the windows of Wendy Houses! New lessons and new teachers, new uniform and new rules, new friends and of course, new enemies!!
    Using ink, from an inkwell with a pen with a shiny nib, using blotting paper, copying from a blackboard, using joined up writing!!  Seems so normal and natural now but back then, for the first time you had to be neat, for the first time the pen was mightier than the...pencil, this was a big deal in 1966, this was my first traumatic experience for Christ's sake!
    It was these junior years that I had my first taste of responsibility of any kind. From giving out books to more important roles, in my case, becoming a milk monitor! This meant I could skip assembly earlier than everyone after morning prayers obviously,( c'mon, back then I still said good morning to the man with the white beard who lived in the clouds!) then I would deliver a crate of milk to each classroom, bottles of milk, bottles made of glass none of that carton rubbish, the 'nanny state' was still decades away. For the first time I had a taste (no pun intended) of helping in the community, at least helping out your school friends, because milk meant break time and that meant, FUN! I just remember break times being so noisy, why talk to each other when you yell at each other.

        Perhaps even when I was between the ages of 7 and 11 although I was unaware of the development of anything other than playground friendships, the seeds had already been ‘subliminally’ sown. I suppose the 'gang', my gang, was getting bigger, but still at this stage, no girls. Girls were always there but avoided, girls were always clean, girls always smelled nice, girls always seemed to have white socks, perhaps even then and because I noticed these things at all, I realised the beauty, the future importance of the female and how they would eventually become something that made me change from a snotty nosed kid to deodorised adolescent.

            It was late ’69 or early ‘70, Jackie appeared on my radar and as a 10 year old, to me she was a vision, a high speed vision, and a blur! Let me explain, she was one of, if not the fastest runner in the school and on Sports Day I suppose I fell in love with her and more to the point word was out that she liked me or rather she liked the colour of my t-shirt!  She had seen me on the school playing field in said shirt and liked it and when word got around, I was quick to tell my mates,
      "She can get her own; she 'ain't having mine"! Of course, I was deeply flattered, for the first time a girl had made a nice comment, did not matter a fig that it was about my t-shirt, I was the boy inside that shirt. She was or should I say, she became my friend, not my girlfriend, not at that age anyway, life was far too big and there was far too much going on but it was good to have a 'friend' other than a mate. It did not matter that we did not really talk much; we may have got by with a 'quick' smile, one that always made me blush and never in front of my mates! So unknown to me at the time, this was my first foray into any kind of 'one on one' relationship with a girl! Alas, when the time came, we left the junior school and went to separate schools that were miles away and so for the first few weeks of the new term, I suffered my first broken heart and even to this day, I still sometimes think of her, she probably can't even remember me but your first 'romance', however young you are and however brief it is, like your first car, you never forget it!
      The next stop in my journey of first's was senior school and what a blitzkrieg of emotions I was about to encounter. For the first time in my life, long trousers were worn and this was a big deal for me, Christ this was a monumental part of my life!  Things became so intense for an 11 year old, so many things happening all at once, the climb from junior school to seniors was for me, very exciting, lessons became longer my subjects became harder  at that stage in my development I was still far more of a prankster than an academic in waiting!  Learning Latin, even at that age, to me seemed a pointless exercise, who spoke Latin for fucks sake, was there such a country as Latinia!  Having to do three different sciences, Chemistry was a hoot, we were allowed to burn things, and dissolve things in weird solutions, biology was fun because we could cut up eyeballs and dissect rats and frogs and best of all, chase girls around the lab scaring the hell out of them with rats entrails, but physics, I just did not get it, too much theory for my liking, laws for this and that, far too much for me to take in. Then there was English Language and English Literature! I hated the writings of Shakey Bill then and I hate it now, I never quite ‘got’ poetry then, that would take many, many years for me to come to terms with, so I suppose  I did learn from it but certainly not the way the School would have liked that's for sure! In the next couple of years this part of my education, obviously the 'academic' stuff I had to do but all was about to change, I soon became educated in a far more interesting subject...girls!

        During those formative years, I experienced my first form of discipline that was to be administered by people other than my parents, teachers!  I was dapped for the first time, I was caned for the first time, I was made to write lines for the first time, worst of all, I was given detention! Pain you could get through, it was almost a badge of honour, even though it may at the time, have hurt like hell, they were never tears in my eyes oh no, they were always because a gnat or some grit had found its way in there, my first lie to my peers! Detention was just so cruel but at the time, the bragging rights were priceless, as long as my parents never found out the real reasons!  I was in so much shit as a kid, nothing serious, just stupid things and as far as they were concerned, I was in every single After School Club going, football, cricket, running, I was a sporting genius for Christ’s sake!!

               There is a time in every boy's life when he becomes a victim or rather his body is the victim of an all-out assault and then the mind gets confused, welcome to  puberty, I have heard all about you, I knew you were on your way, in fact I've been waiting for you! Was I ready, is anybody! Of course not, so welcome one of your first feelings of overwhelming, all consuming misery!
            Girls as we all know, are far more advanced and us boys stay as junior Neanderthals, in the pecking order of what we all know as evolution, we remain paddling around in the gene pool while the girls, well, they start to blossom! A boy's exposure to puberty is nature’s way of having a good laugh at our expenses, the joys of your voice breaking, one day up next day down, maybe half and half at the same time for what seems like ages. Then all of a sudden from nowhere comes this almost demonic speaking voice bursting from a cherub's mouth, most disconcerting for all those that know you! When the 'transformation' happens for the first time you change from this sweet young thing to a hormone charged 'being'! For the first time in your life everything but everything has a sexual connotation added to it. You think you know it all, you have read the book on sex, well, a dirty magazine in the playground to be exact and as all boys think at the time, all women look like the beauties within those stuck together pages! You have done it all, you are well versed, we all think we are studs, truth be told, we are not even little rivet's and your sex education at that point is, to say the least, limited. God bless those massed playground huddles that were a weekly ritual when somebody had pinched his old man's copy of Playboy and it was a scramble to climb upon your mates shoulders to get a glimpse of those ladies. As we all know, in reality you only are an expert with yourself, the left hand tonight and the right tomorrow, what's that saying....
"Wasn't it fun in the bath tonight"! Fuck me, I had never been so clean, I willingly took bath's, much to my mother’s amazement and much to my father’s amusement, he knew of course, he may have been my dad but once upon a time, he was a boy too , let's be honest, nothing is new now is it, especially when the sap begins to rise.
      So many firsts happen to you with the arrival of puberty, there is your first shave with the old man's best razor, your first tentative dabs of his aftershave  that stings like hell but most of all with all of this facial grooming, how the hell do I navigate my way through the maze of spots that for the first time have exploded all over my face!! This is the Bain of any teenager’s life but I was in good company, we ALL had spots, they went with the territory. With this new found 'thing', the being I had become, a teenager, along came the youth club and with that came the school disco and with these two significant parts of growing up came...posing and girls! Last month you could not stand them, what they did, what they looked like, they were in their corner and you were in yours but all was about to change, for the very first time, they were about to become the focus of every boy's attention. A quick kiss and a grope in the cloakroom and in my mind I was a bona fide sex God! A kiss became a snog, a snog soon included tongues for the first time, and this was something that alarmed me when it first happened. She was if I remember correctly, a lovely girl, normally a quiet girl but she must have been some sort of alien, I remember gagging as she proceeded to suck my face off, what is this all about, she really scared me, Christ she scared me but you couldn't tell your mates, that was a definite no no, I was the boy and she was the girl and they were waiting for a blow by blow account of my liaison, so what could I do, fucking obvious, I lied to them! With my change in attitude towards girls came a lot of other changes, I soon had my first can of beer, a pack of four shared between probably twenty five boy's, it tasted pretty horrible but you all claimed to love it and of course it wasn't the first time you had all done it, yeah right!  I remember us all hanging around outside the off license, just waiting for the moment and then pushing the tallest of the group through the shop doorway, leaving him stranded in the shop and doing the most natural thing....run like fuck!! Later when he emerged from the shop with the beer, we would all brazenly walk down the street to the local park and then we would all sit down in a circle (something's you never stop doing!) on the grass and stare at the four cans in the middle. Tall boy would get first swig, well that was only fair after all, then the cans would be passed around, we would all take a glug, pretend that we loved it, pretend you had taken a big mouthful and then share out the Polo Mints to disguise any trace of it on your breath, and you would always get some joker who would make out that he was drunk, what a prat, what was his name... probably me. Of course with your first can of beer soon came your first cigarette, again it would be shared with your mates, all for one and one for all I suppose, if one was going to be in the shit, best that we all were, by the time it had been passed around a couple of times it was usually dripping with spit, thinking back, you would readily drag on a soggy cigarette but if a bottle or a can of anything was passed around, you would use anything to hand usually a jumper, to wipe away any trace of the previous drinkers spit!   

       These ‘shared’ experiences were the first time of showing any kind of loyalty towards others, mates at that time were more like brothers, brothers in arms, that must sound so corny, cheesy beyond belief but back in the day, we were, experiences that to me at that time, were so important, so real and so true and I for one make no apologies!
    Up until the age of 14 or so, music was something I was aware of, it was mostly confined to the background(no pun intended) but I was yet to start my love of music in general but all that was about to change! Like all kids of my generation, we all watched Top Of The Pops on a Thursday night but most of my musical education was on the radio, the early 70's was the best for 'Pop', music at that stage of my development, I had yet to discover the album, my focus was purely aimed at the 45 rpm single, serious music that lasted more than three minutes was still to make an appearance in my record collection, all was about to change because for the first time, my horizons were to be broadened!

                One Saturday I was sat in Dave's front room waiting for him to emerge from his pit and for us to head off into town for a day of staring at girls, his older brother, home for the summer from University, came into the room, 
    "How you doing Lars" (my nickname given to me by Dave and his family, a cartoon character back in the day, 'Filmation's Journey To The Centre Of The Earth', could have been worse, could have been 'Shaggy from Scooby Doo', now he WAS a dumb arse! Anyway Dave’s brother walked across the lounge, all crushed velvet loon pants and a Che Guevara T-shirt, this was a student and this was SO cool to me back then, he walked to the stereo with a carrier bag under his arm,
    "Lars, I think you will like this, forget about all of that poppy, glittery crap you young lads listen to, listen up this is some musical education for you"! With a sigh and a 'tut' of displeasure, I reluctantly prepared to be educated. Almost as soon as the needle hit the groove, I immediately sat up and took notice, for this was my first introduction to 'serious ' music, this was the first time that my ears were attacked by the dulcet tones of Led Zeppelin this was my first 'epiphany', this was my first day of a lifelong love of ROCK! I listened to that album, both sides without uttering a single word, this alone was one of the first times in my life, I was speechless, lost for words, this was made all the more important to me because I knew that this was the sort of music that would piss off my parents, the pop was bad enough to them, this 'new' type of music, I just knew they would hate it, and to me, as a teenager, this was positively priceless and especially because none of my mates had moved up to this level of sonic attack!! 
        Looking back on how life was then and I am often asked by my own kids,
      "How did you get through the day then, you must have been bored out of your mind!" Well, I don't remember much of my life back then that bored me, quite the opposite, life was good for me and I think I can speak for most of my peers, life was not so intense, not so full on, not in your face, unlike it is for teenagers today. They have more of 'everything' compared to my generation, they know more than we did at their age, they are certainly more sexually aware and indeed 'active' than we ever were, until recently, I thought  Chlamydia was a Soviet Naval Base in the Black Sea somewhere!
    It was during those halcyon days that I became aware of clothes; they say clothes maketh the man, well clothes 'sort of' made me! My first pair of Levi's followed by my 'old faithful', my beloved Levi jacket atop my first cheese cloth shirt and on my feet were suede 'desert boots', I loved those babies and wore them forever, even when they got wet!  Soon I would be wearing my first pair of 'Chuck Taylor's', in cream naturally!! Christ I looked good then, well, according to the reflection staring back at me from the mirror on my bedroom wall, what was not to like! 
   
    Like most kids, your first job of any kind was a paper round. I can still remember my first wage packet, standing in line with all of the other paper boys and eventually being presented with a brown envelope full of loose change and your first ever wage slip. I remember beaming from ear to ear, Christ, I was getting money for what was basically old rope. I remember blowing the lot on sweets and music magazines and what was one of my last ever DC or Marvel Comics, I was the 'super hero' now,  I was now a 'wage earner', no longer a kid! No sooner had I left the shop and it was all gone, a weekly wage was something I still had to come to terms with, spend it all on payday, that was it for a week, this took me a couple of weeks to come to terms with this concept.! With the paper round I fast learnt who were good tippers and who were the tight Bastards! The third letterbox on my round was a flat and it belonged to a man with an artificial leg, he lived on his own and was apparently the victim of some industrial accident and on Saturday's he would dress in a shirt and tie and would then proceed to get pissed all day and in the summer months he would sit in his garden and sing from his deck chair. He was probably the first drunk I saw on a regular basis, he was probably one of the first people that I ever met who obviously drowned his sorrows with beer and more to the point; he was the first person outside of my family who gave me money! He would stop his singing and call me over to him, I handed him his paper which he would always throw across his doorway,
    "Come here boy, something for you"
With one hand he would grasp mine and with the other he would thrust a £1 note into it.
      "You're a good lad, wind and rain, your always here, this is for you", fucking hell,  this was more than a week’s money and at first I tried to  refuse and  and hand it back but he would have nothing of it, in fact he became a little angry in the way that only a drunk does,
  "What do you mean, you take it, and don't you dare question me, you do me a favor so take it now, I am not going to argue with you so you take it, then you can  Fuck off you little Bastard, go and just you remember”

He glared at me through blood shot eyes and beer breath and he told me to remember, it was his money and he could do whatever he wanted with it. Now looking back on this incident and indeed this man, I can relate to him more than I like to admit! like him, there are times when I do get bitter and twisted, I do get angry, that's well documented, no doubt about that, perhaps mine is caused by something a little less tangible than losing a leg, nonetheless something was cruelly taken as far as I am concerned, never to be seen again, perhaps my first experience of how any kind of loss, although at the time I was blissfully unaware of what was waiting around the corner for me! If that man was still alive now, I'd like to have a drink with him, we would now be on a level playing field, he would not scare me, I don't recall him scaring me then and I think even he would agree, we have definitely become some kind of kindred spirits both with axes to grind! He just found some sort of solace poured from a bottle and perhaps I have still to find some inner peace whatever, whenever, it is out there somewhere and that is most definitely still very much a work in progress!
      After the paper round, I was very lucky to get a job at a Motel as a washer upper! Now from a paperboy to a washer upper in a Motel, this presented so many firsts to me, a wage packet with notes in it for a start! For the first time in my life, at age sixteen I was rich, I was loaded, 
almost overnight I was able to buy two 45's and an album!! During my time at the Motel I soon witnessed my first experience of the 'worker/manager' relationship! Up to that point in my life I had always been taught that if an older person, usually your parents obviously or your teachers told you what when and how, you did as you were told, no question you just did it. However now for the first time I saw people arguing with boss's, people doing the opposite to what they had been asked, people going out of their way to be awkward, so if they could do it, so could I, or so I thought! I did not take into account that these were seasoned workers, with years of practice, not stroppy part timers like me and especially a kid. The first time I answered back, I was given such a bollocking, threatened with the sack and to shape up or ship out, duly noted I can tell you! After about six months or so I soon realised that although I was doing the work for spending money, I was still at school waiting to sit my final exams and this was weekend work, it was a means to an end, and as I was the first of the ‘gang’ to get a job other than the obligatory paper round, I did miss being with them and I soon started to hate being away from them!
      My last term at school was, on reflection some of the best times of my life! Being a mouthy fucker, I loved getting involved in debates, learning how to discuss things with others, for the first time in my life talking sensibly and with meaning and purpose, something I hope I am still able to do as an adult. With those last few months of education came exams, for the first time in my life I knew that either I knuckled down and did my best or I bombed out!  Well, for the first time in my life I was soon to become aware that there are things in life that you have to do on your own and if you fail, it is nobody's fault but your own. I failed, I bombed, I could have and I should have passed my exams but I suppose ultimately I was a dreamer and soon realized for the first time failure is not a nice friend to have hanging around you! 


To be continued.......

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